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What?
Sweet 15 is a major milestone in a girl’s life—a long-established
celebration all over the world. As a time-honored tradition for Hispanic girls,
planning this celebration takes a great deal of planning. The attention to rich
culture and tradition is important. Adding a little extra must fit your taste
and that of your family’s customs. The beginnings of Quinceañeras go way back to
the combining of Christianity, the Aztec religion and lifestyle when the Spanish
conquered the Aztec Indians in the 1500’s. It is still popular amongst the
Hispanics in Mexico, the United States, South America and in other
Spanish-speaking countries.
Why?
This special
celebration marks the beginning of womanhood as she “comes out” to be presented
to society. Tradition places additional responsibilities on the young woman
after her Quinceañeras such as household duties, family needs, work,
volunteerism, or even marriage. While a great deal of attention is placed on the
party and the celebration, the basic belief is for the young woman to live a
life of faith, good moral principles, devotion to her community and live a
wholesome lifestyle. The ceremony is value and moral centered. Like the
milestone markers of birth, baptism, and confirmation, the Quinceañeras gives
thanks to God.
Spiritual reverence is important for some families planning this event. They
also have the duty to assist with the financial costs of the event along side
the godparents and other special friends and family members.
Decide who will be members of your court.
Fourteen couples (one for each year of your life) are chosen. Fourteen Damas
(maids of honors) and fourteen Chamberlains (chamberlains) may include family
members and/or close friends. You might also consider having flower girls
to scatter rose petals or to carry a basket of flowers. Visit the pages through
this site for planning tips & ideas.
When?
Customs &
Traditions. The birthday girl is serenaded by a mariachi band in front of her
house the night before her 15th birthday . A celebration is planned for her
birth date or the Saturday closest to her birthday—Quinceañeras!
Where?
Typically, a church mass is celebrated. The dinner and dance celebration can be
held at the church hall, a reception/banquet hall, or other unique
possibilities.
How?
will have a touch of protocol and a touch of
special creativity as discussed with your Priest or Pastor. As with most
ceremonies, consider the following as ideas:
-Special Scripture or Poem reading by a
designated person
-Candle Lighting Ceremony (14 candles for the
Court, parents, Godparents and the Quinceañeras)
-Special music
-Signing of the Certificate (Parents and
Godparents can personally sign)....see above certificate
-Acknowledgement and Recognition of other
"special people"
-Special Prayer or Verse
Dance Program
After the Court is presented and then the
Quinceañeras, special dances are reserved as follows:
The first dance is a waltz danced with the
Quinceañeras and her father
The Court of Honor is presented
The Godparents join in
Lastly, the dance floor is open for guests
Males usually take turns dancing with the
Quinceañeras
After this presentation, the toast is given
and the cake is served.
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